Addictive Disorders & Addiction Therapy

Biography

Biography: Robert Hudson, Metanoia University, London

Abstract

To identify and report data collected on the impact of sexual addiction and compulsive sexual behavior (SA&C) on the couple relationships and the wider family;  identify and explore the betrayal and trauma impacted by SA&C on the couple relationship and the wider family; to explore different ways of treating the couple and wider family impacted by SA&C; to explore the paradigm shift that is taking place in the treatment of SA&C and the wider family and how SA&C impacts us individually (behaviors, decisions, relationships and clinically). This presentation reviews and reports qualitative and quantitative data collected from 140 couples and their families in the context of the impact of SA&C. Some of the findings will be discussed about the different dimensions of trauma relevant to partners and their families of the addict. This presentation is geared towards clinicians, researchers and anyone impacting on or interested in this area. Sexual addiction and compulsivity (SA&C) is a progressive intimacy disorder in which an individual cannot control his or her sexual impulses and/or actions. The individual becomes so obsessed with sexual desires and behaviors that it negatively affects other areas of their lives, such as relationships, their children and careers. SA&C is commonly treated within the individual, however emerging research suggests that it is impacting the couple’s relationship and their children. Reports are suggesting that smart phones and internet communication can lead to relationship problems, conflicts, marital discord which ultimately impact on their children. The aim of this study was to investigate and explore the impact of SA&C on the couple relationships. The study included 140 participants comprised of 79 men and 61 women. The study uses a mixed method of qualitative and quantitative methodology using grounded theory and an online survey. Individuals and couples with sexual problems who may not have come to clinical attention before are emerging as a result. This study provides information about the impact of sexual addiction on the couple relationships and that specialized sexual addiction therapies are supporting some of their needs. Results revealed the complexity and demands of working with couples and their wider family who have been impacted by SA&C. The implication of these findings for training, research and practice will be discussed by personal experience of recovery and clinical experience as a sex and relationship therapist.  The idea for this research in part came from experience running intensive programs for couples dealing with the aftermath of sex addiction on their relationships. Much of the research reference was inspired by the Sexual Addiction & Compulsivity journal.